Love ya Arranged????🌼💫

Now by the looks of it you must have understood on which topic I am going to write today after a very very very long time..

The question of marriage is one of the most important life changing decision of your life. It can be a boon if you get the right companiion and bane if you don't find your suitable match. For the rest of your life you are going to look at your partner day night in out almost everywhere.So here's my little take on what process should go in while answering love ya Arranged!!

The Love marriage.

Maximum people reading this blog are wanting to be in a marriage in which they actually love the person they want to be with for their rest of our lives. And it is actually very important to have a sense of love with the person you want to grow old with!! Inspite of everyone wanting it.. very few people can actually culminate a successful love relationship into marriage .

Perks of love marriage

1) you accept the person completely with their flaws without any complaints.

2 ) you compromise with the in laws of your partner whole heartedly for the sake of your partner 

3) you know the person in and out.. and hence more compatibility.

4)the evergreen romance is completely alive for a longer duration. ( I am not sure about this😝)

5) sometimes you are so good friends with someone that life becomes easier after marriage as you start living with your own friend cum partner. Double benefit.

Now comes the tough part..

Everybody falls in love but do they actually culminate in lifelong partnership not necessarily.The relationship is a very rosy period where pratical consideration are often ignored and hence problem may creep in after you actually start living together. And In India there are problems of intercaste marraige.. approval of the family... The sanskari criteria if not met there can be outright rejection..🤣🤣 

Sometime the ups and down are like recession and recovery of the economy... Very unlikely to be predicted. If you still sail through the obstacles of the high sea... You get married finally which is a pure bliss!!♥️♥️

The Arrange marriage 

Now people are also ready and apprehensive of arrange marriage at the same time. The reason of apprehension is the complete anonymity of the partner.. and people are ready because there is a need for companionship in human being which is nothing but a social being. And most important reason for going for a arrange marriage is constructed by the norms of society.. and therefore considered a more ideal  marraige as per the pre determined society norms that we abide by consciously or subconsciously. 

Perks of Arrange marriage

1) you would not have family dramas in your marriage.

2) same caste marraige the familiarity of cultures makes things bit easier..

3) you are actually on a life long adventure with a person you know nothing about.. 

4) you can spend the first few years of marriage in just knowing the new entrant in your life it can enjoyable.( I am not sure about this too)🤣

5) things are planned well ..

Finance. Residence. occupation of both partners.and you know how things are going to go to a certain extent..

6) arrange marriage can also be an opportunity for you get a beautiful looking or handsome looking partner by chance!!🤣

7) your sample choice of selecting your partner is wide.. you can prioritise easily what do you want more in a partner. Here there is a contradiction too.. it can be narrow too if you are forced to look in your same caste😝

Why not arrange??

Because most importantly you don't  know the person. It is the gambling with the most important decision of your life. And you figure out every thing after marriage. Which  can be blissful or terrible. And you spend along time how to live with each other.. understand each other . Sometime it can be very organic in nature too... But the other times it can be terrible leaving you to get out of the marraige asap!!

And in arrange the process is also quite tough in meeting potential partners and matching your compatibility test with their standards... Quite a game it is🤣🤣

The Madhyam marg!!

The debate between love ya arrange is non ending..so it is better to find a person that you love and get it arranged! It is very easy to say than doing it.. but ofcourse not impossible.

Umeed pe duniya kayam hai...♥️

Kyu hai na??♥️