The Great Heart break 💔💔💔

 My sister once said to me everyone has to go through one heart break in their lives . And she gave me a brilliant idea to write a blog .

Is it necessary???

Now is it necessary that your heart will break once in your lifetime! I did a little survey on people around me and except one or two every one went through one! And the reasons were entirely varied but the pain is the same. The feeling was àlmost similar that everyone went through.

The toota dil💔💔

Now this could be because you expected from somebody to love you but they never reciprocated.... Or they reciprocated but things never went you wanted them to be. Or just as they show in movies the love traingle complicates the relationship you are in. Or the partner you trusted betrayed you! Or never loved you in the first place. Or their expectations from the relationship never matched with your expectations in the relationship. So the reasons could be thousands! But the poor heart has go through a lot of drama.. The auricles and the ventricles must be wondering our job was to pump blood but what is more difficult is to go through a heart break!💔

The symptoms of a heart break!

You constantly think about why did this happen to you!

Either you are very angry or very berieved. 

You start have self doubt session for a while.

You would want a closure or a reconciliation at an instant!

Your happy memories suddenly walk past you everyday! 

Your past suddenly seems like that was it.. nothing like it is ever going to happen again.

You would suddenly start contacting your old friends whom you ignored while in a relationship!

You sound depressed on call with your family members and if they ask you say nothing!

Or like Kangana Ranaut in queen..

" You express yourself in front of strangers after 2 drinks Mera itta life khrab ho gya na!!!! Ki kya btao"😝🤣🤣

Or you search for a rebound ... At this point anyone would do! You are so heart broken ki koi bhi chlega abhi to! 🤣

Or there is another type of people .. I call them the revenge types I will transform myself in a way that my ex will want come back to me🤣 They will start working out ! They will start looking good! Working on them selves! And it goes on.. "Tod k mera dil intekam dekhegi "🤣

Or you may be the desparate to patch up types too . You feel like there was no one better than her/ him. Lets patch up even at the cost of your self respect!

Can you imagine the little heart is going through an ocean of emotions at one go..  Sometimes it leads to not to make decisions rationally.. and you try to protect your heart by keeping your guards up as high as The Great Wall of  China. Not letting anyone enter again.. not trusting easily.. Having let go off the people who actually care about you.  

Or you might try to move on and go on blind dates . Or try to be active on social media to take your mind off the things ! Interaction with old friends. And what not!!

But what actually works!🧡🧡🧡

Now all these symptoms and escape routes are temporary . Will never last long even a month. Based on my little survey the only thing that works in this situation is "Indifference"  It will take some time to master . But once done it is a bliss.  

You heart is free from the pain it goes through. It is a relief that will give you a feeling of breaking shackles of the anguish that you feel. And you actually are ready to Move on with all the confidence and self worth that was lost earlier. 

It is like attaining Nirvana in your love life . A state of ecstasy a state of healing of another kind that sets you free. 

Take the experience as a learning one and let your toota dil heal back in full swing. So that you don't spend hours listening to your break up playlists!🤣😝 And you actually find the right person who makes your heart smile..💟💟