How to have a good conversation 🌼🌼🌼

 Kuch tum kaho.. kuch hum kahe! 

Khamoshi ko ..khamoshi se!

Zindagi ko .....zindagi se 

Baat karne do!!!  

Kuch tum kaho kuch hum kahe...

The art of holding up a good conversation is very precious. It not only strengthen the inter personal relationship but also satisfies the inner social being you are. Human beings are never meant to be in isolation. And if that is the case then the skill to hold up a good wholesome conversation is very significant.

There is difference between blabbering  ,mere talking and having a meaningful and satisfactory conversation. Some tips and tricks which I follow and so far they have worked well. Are:

Break the ice.❄️❄️❄️☃️

Now some introvert might not be intrested in breaking the ice. But the one who does has better communication skills definitely. And not some vague opening lines but some interesting logical ones ... Particularly those which intrests the other one will build a strong base for your conversation. 

What people often do is that they ask some random question out of the blue which can be off putting and might end the conversation. But if you are creative with your first lines this can lead to creating a inquisitive and intresting image of you . And is followed by organic two way chit chat!! 

Eye contact🌝🌝🌝

Most people do not know where to look while they have a conversation. Hehe that's true. There is mid way between staring and not looking at all. You have to travel this mid way carefully. And the way you look creats a sense of meaning to your conversation.

 Don't believe me. Just try talking to someone and look away completely. That conversation will start going downhill and will never emerge ever... I can guarantee 😝😝 However intelligent person you might be ... The gaze during a conversation is just important as the content of the conversation. Aankho ki gustakhiyan maaf nhi hoti if your eye contact is just off!!!

The content.🗣️🗣️🗣️

This is the most important thing in any conversation you hold up. It must have... I repeat must!!! have logic and sense into what are you talking. I know some people can be a little intimidating or you might get nervous around some people. But the one thing that keeps your conversation in a flow is meaning of your conversation. The topic that you choose to talk about ! The response that you generate ! The views that you have.. creates a to and fro motion in your conversation!

And if talking to a sapiosexual person who just can't skip it! Remember that person can be judging you with the content of your conversation. So that is definitely a secret but cent percent true...

A pinch of sarcasm/ humour.💫💫💫💫

Now to increase the length of your virtual or one to one conversation a pinch of sarcasm and humour could just work wonders. It depends on the person too... As he / she may have different tolerance levels and might get offended too. But a pinch of it ... Works like spice in food😇😇. The right amount will be relished. Too much or too little will be a not so good idea!!

Now you know that humour also has the potential to get the conversation in its full fledged form . And if you are sarcastic in a subtle way nothing better than that!  You are already there !!  (Teach that to me too!)That is rare and is therefore precious!🌼🌼

Don't pretend! 🙅🙅🙅

A major turn off in a conversation is that people pretend what they are not! It is just so not appealing!! Keep it real.. talk like you.. and that is it ...way more attractive than pretending like anybody else. 😌😌

Some major mistakes people make.. trying to put up a fake accent ... Thinking too much before speaking.. ..and to impress the other person faking responses ... Not saying what you actually feel ... Naah! 😶😶That doesn't work at all. Genuine people are actually wonderful conversation makers naturally.. They are just themselves. With no pressure of impressing the other person and just being themselves. It is as simple as it sounds. 

The benefits of having good conversation can definitely light up your mood and also talkative people like me can actually feel innate sense of pleasure!!!😝 Difficult to express in words.. It is like I am the actor in my movie and while conversation I just gave the perfect shot ! And ended in way with lot of appreciations from the other person as well. 

Having wholesome conversation is highly underated. 

Isliye kuch tum kaho ,kuch meri suno..😌😌

Ye tumhari meri batein ..🧡🧡🧡

Hamesha yun hi chalti rahe!🌟🌟🌟