Who defines success..?🙄

We all are running in a invisible race to become a successful person .The notions and parameters of success are different and highly variable.It can be being a billionaire and dying in a five star hospital or it can be person who accomplishes a profession of their choice. For some it can be a good health and youthful body or for some it can be as basic as seeing their kids happy. 

The invisible race.

In order to be successful we are constantly burning ourselves trying to be the perfect self .Battling inner conflicts daily without uttering a single word just to be a success in our own view. We have our self -worth defined on the basis of the perception of success ,which is highly chaotic in real life . We define who we are on the basis of what we achieve but in real sense it is an inherently faulty notion.

The final destination

We often imagine a final goal to be achieved .A final zenith to be touched. This is life -changing achievement will revolutionize us. But who decides this final goal ? On what basis? Does it give  you all what you needed?

Parameter of success

Success is measured on a narrow scale of money, beauty ,bank balance ,choice of profession etc. But it has awider ambit.It is the ability to inspire others. It is the ability to make yourself happy in adversity. It is the way too achieve a goal while not cutting off people from your life. It is the sheer courage that one shows in the most difficult heart breaking times. It is the ability to let go when you realise it is not the worth. It can be earning respect in the minds of those who surround you. It can be doing what you love. It can be not becoming a slave to ongoing circumstances and finding a unconventional and uncomfortable path for yourself which has never been taken before. 

Success can be as simple as happiness.

If you are happy before sleeping every day you are damn successful. Because in reality what you need is the content that I am successful. This content in  self worth changes everything. This is the way you see yourself and let the world see you in the same way! If you focus on on the content part of it is all what it takes to be a success. 

Let nobody decide success for you and let it be a Platform to realise your own self worth.

Dude ! Because you are more than just a successful person. You are the unique you! The only you! See isn't it way too precious!